In our Bible study on Wednesday night, we discussed the gift of simplicity. Jesus lived a simple life and instructed His disciples to follow His example. We talked about simplifying our lives in the areas of commitments and possessions and relationships and schedules, etc.
Since our discussion, my mind has been busy thinking about areas that I need to simplify. I mean even the title of my blog should clue you in to the fact that my life is anything but simple!
As I reflect on my life and why I have what I have and do what I do, I'm very much aware of the fact that I am bad about comparing myself to others. I need to stay busy because busy schedules are impressive. I can't give my kids a simple cake and ice cream birthday party because everyone else I know has Pinterest PERFECT parties. I have to get a photographer to take unique pictures of my family because that is what people do now (my cell phone pics and mommy photography is just not impressive enough).
But I'm asking myself, who am I really impressing?? Who should I impress??
The Bible says in 1 Samu7el 16:7b "The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart."
And Colossians 3:2 says "Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things."
I'm wearing myself out trying to impress others when they are not who I should be worried about anyway. Although Pinterest perfect parties are not bad....my motive behind trying to have one is. And maybe making commitments isn't wrong, we should consider our motives. When we simplify our lives, we are better capable of focusing on what is truly important- our Heavenly Father, our family, etc.
Don't be surprised if I say no to some events and commitments. ..don't be surprised if we have a simple birthday party at home... don't be surprised if I'm not wearing the latest fashion. ...don't be surprised if you see a lot of the stuff I own being given away or thrown away. I'm ready to focus on what is important and pleasing the MOST IMPORTANT.